ULTIMATE GUIDE TO ANAL SEX FOR WOMEN
Confessions of a Backdoor Betty: Why I Love Anal Sex
and Why I Wrote This Book
Confessions
Yes, I admit it—I love anal sex. The first time
someone put a finger in my butt, I almost went
crazy from the pleasure. The sensations I
experienced were so intense, incredible, and
heavenly that it was mind-blowing. I felt high
from the experience, and I couldn't wait to do it
again. The first time I put my finger in someone
else's butt, the results were just as fabulous—I felt
entrusted with my partner's deepest vulnerabilities,
in awe of the ecstatic pleasure I could give. Then
came more fingers, tongues, vibrators, small
dildos, bigger dildos, butt plugs, a penis, bigger
butt plugs, even an entire small hand.
Each time I could take a little more and give a little more, I felt
more sexually alive and powerful. As I incorporated anal
eroticism into my sex life, my sex life became better and better.
The sex got hotter, my partners extra adventurous, my orgasms
fierce and explosive. The physical sensations were undeniably
some of the best I'd ever felt in my life. I confess too that
beyond the deep body gratification, the naughtiness of it all
really turned me on. Even my most kinky, sexually liberated
friends weren't doing this—or if they were, they never talked
about it (and I knew the intimate details of everything else they
were doing in bed). Only sexually voracious gay men fucked
each other's asses with abandon the way I was. Neither my
partners nor I identified as gay men, so what did we think we
were doing?
Too Many Myths
Growing up in this culture, it is nearly impossible to escape the
taboo of anal sexuality and all the myths surrounding it. From
an early age, we are taught that our assholes are private, dirty,
and shouldn't be touched in a sexual way. Whether we learn
about the birds and the bees from popular books or in sex
education class, the anus is rarely mentioned, unless to say it's
behind our genitals. As I grew up, I heard "fag jokes" about men
who "do each other in the butt"; these men were derided for
their practice of anal sex. If we do hear about people other than
gay men having sex, they are usually labeled "kinky" or
"perverted," and the sex is clearly considered abnormal. When
anal sex is acknowledged as an erotic preference in sex research
and popular...............................................................................
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